October 26, 2009
Dear Clusterflock
What keeps you where you are, instead of pursuing what you are truly passionate about?
comments
Leave a Reply
What keeps you where you are, instead of pursuing what you are truly passionate about?
comments
Leave a Reply
Money.
Ambrose Bierce: “Comfort is the smother of invention.”
I’m still young and deluded enough to think that I am pursuing what I’m passionate about, just in a very slow and roundabout manner.
Right now? The rain that’s bucketing down in Houston.
Generally? The regular pay cheque and the mortgage, but knocking that down as quickly as I can.
Money, but mostly confusion. Since dropping out of seminary, it hasn’t been entirely clear what I need/want to do.
Great question, Patrick. My answer: insufficient funds.
I’m with Andrew. I have passion I just don’t know where to apply it.
I am between 2 and 4 years away from pursuing my passion (see numerous posts re: the Marfa hacienda). The good news for all y’all who are feeling stuck is that, while Daryl and I have felt for years that we were sacrificing too much of our best selves to the mundane necessities of work and responsibilities, it really is possible to reach a point where all of that work pays off. I’ll be able to retire at 55 (and perhaps as early as 53). So, at this point, instead of concentrating on what is keeping me where I am, I’m focusing on where I soon will be.
I am someone who shifted focus in the middle of what some would call a successful career to pursue something I was/am passionate about. Based on my experience I will say that sometimes, pursuing one’s passion isn’t all it’s cracked up to be.
It sounds like a great idea, and as a concept it’s certainly being used to sell a lot of books in the self-help/entrepreneurship genres — especially now, in the midst of a recession that’s claiming a lot of people’s existing livelihoods. But all other things being equal, one’s passion doesn’t necessarily need to be one’s life’s work.
Passions don’t always make a good professions. Passion is pleasure; work isn’t, necessarily. Turning one’s passion into one’s profession fundamentally changes the relationship.
Um, I should stop now because I could probably author an entire blog on this topic alone.
Well said, Andrea. My passion has always been writing–but I realized early on that I didn’t want to write for money. I sure don’t turn it down when it comes, but when one depends on an activity to pay the bills, the temptation to compromise the art of one’s efforts expands. I suppose writing is a kind of job for me in that I teach writing; but if an editor wants a change I don’t want, I have no qualms about saying fine–don’t run the piece.
And Andrea–sounds like you might need to do a book!
A lease. And the fear that there won’t be a new job out there for me.
Debt.
What if the things and people I am passionate about keep me where I am?
Then you, dear Vin, are a lucky man.
Cindy–
It took me awhile to get here… but I’m pretty happy with where I ended up.
A BOOK. Darryl. Heaven forfend.