Over the course of years, reading bathroom walls, I’ve read two things that stand out. First at ASU where I got my Bachelors, “Kill a Queer for Christ, ” in a stall, across the hall from the door to my Economics class. (Which eventually became part of the last paragraph of a paper I wrote on Sinclair Lewis’s Elmer Gantry.) And later, “Sickle cell anemia is our only hope,” seen in a “way-station” somewhere in Southern Illinois, near East St. Louis, when we stopped for gas, as we were going from “here to there.” I couldn’t get out fast enough. “Drive, Danny!” I said. “Just drive. Get us out of here.”
I sure know what you mean, Rick, and you give the perfect examples of it. There should be a word for that sudden feeling of being an alien among one’s own countrymen. I hate that expectation of agreement brought upon one by bigots who misread the ones they hate and the ones they “trust” as well. I think the best thing I ever did in terms of education was to drive a motorcycle across the South and Southwest during the peak years of the Vietnam War. I was 15, with long hair, and in all the cafes along the way I heard Mearle Haggard’s “We Don’t Smoke Marijuana, in Muskogee.” I saw what people will do when they decide you are the “other,” or even the enemy. The best thing is that it made me realize I didn’t want to be part of their world even if they would have me.
Oh man, what a bummer.
exactly.
With few exceptions, I generally think of comment sections as the bathroom stalls of the internet. And not in the cool ways.
Over the course of years, reading bathroom walls, I’ve read two things that stand out. First at ASU where I got my Bachelors, “Kill a Queer for Christ, ” in a stall, across the hall from the door to my Economics class. (Which eventually became part of the last paragraph of a paper I wrote on Sinclair Lewis’s Elmer Gantry.) And later, “Sickle cell anemia is our only hope,” seen in a “way-station” somewhere in Southern Illinois, near East St. Louis, when we stopped for gas, as we were going from “here to there.” I couldn’t get out fast enough. “Drive, Danny!” I said. “Just drive. Get us out of here.”
I sure know what you mean, Rick, and you give the perfect examples of it. There should be a word for that sudden feeling of being an alien among one’s own countrymen. I hate that expectation of agreement brought upon one by bigots who misread the ones they hate and the ones they “trust” as well. I think the best thing I ever did in terms of education was to drive a motorcycle across the South and Southwest during the peak years of the Vietnam War. I was 15, with long hair, and in all the cafes along the way I heard Mearle Haggard’s “We Don’t Smoke Marijuana, in Muskogee.” I saw what people will do when they decide you are the “other,” or even the enemy. The best thing is that it made me realize I didn’t want to be part of their world even if they would have me.
This makes me want to cry.